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🖙Counting Friends

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I've always been intrigued by polls about the number and makeup of people's friends1 I was nerdsniped (by myself, basically) to actually look up the gender breakdown of people's friends for another post.

I crunched some numbers myself because I wanted to separate "All" and "Most."

Gender/ Number of friends of the same gender All Most Some Only a few None Refused
A man 31.4% 30% 28% 8.1% 2.5% 0.1%
A woman 41.3% 29.3% 18.9% 8.1% 2.2% 0.1%
In some other way 19% 14.7% 34.6% 17.8% 14% 0%
Refused 16.4% 71.3% 12.4% 0% 0% 0%
All People 36.2% 29.5% 23.4% 8.2% 2.5% 0.1%

"In some other way" is from the survey, not me. I think they asked how the person identifies, but it looks a bit strange out of context (although maybe better than a bald "Other").

It's more common for women to have an entirely all-female friend group than men to have an all-male group. Due to toxic masculinity, I probably would have guessed the opposite. Huh!


  1. I don't know what this says about me. Maybe I'll ask my friends next time we hang out!

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